和女生聊天总潜意识能想到性，怎么控制这个，我想这里的各位对女色都拿捏不住吧
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橙色脉轮膨胀的表现除了自大还包含渴望征服与占有，永不满足的性欲，如上所述，根源可能在于逃避焦虑的一种本能反应。
除了直面重大课题之外，能量稳定也很重要，“精满不思淫”，作息规律，白天多运动，晒太阳，晚上少看手机，每日冥想，学习，创作，找到一个健康的缓解焦虑的方式，这个因人而异。
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好的谢谢。。。。。
我属于特别拿捏不住的那种，但是我想我很快（或许几个月/或许几年）应该会对性有一个更清醒的认识。
上帝在我们内心最深处，个人感觉几乎百分之九十九的事我们都能分清哪些是对的哪些是错的，只不过我们有时候选择臣服于自我而非造物者的声音。但是唯有一个例外就是性，总感觉内心深处的声音很多时候也是在告诉我和女性做爱(或者zw)是错的。
不为欲望所控，但也不要强行忽视身体的本能。如果这个行为是发自于充满对自己及他人的爱与尊敬，那么我觉得没什么对错。相反，如果因为觉得这是错的，而不做，或者带着羞耻感去做，那么会造成底轮能量堵塞，会让个体更容易沉迷其中，并在之后更加自责，这样就会形成一种恶性循环了。能量与通道都是要流动、通畅的。 
当然也有很多人，本能上不需要，或不怎么需要这种生理本能，他的底轮也不会因为不做而堵塞。所以，因情况而定，感受自己的内心，真诚面对自己的身体、心理和精神需求。
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我们的身体本身有个极性，并且心智之内也有原型能量的驱动，与异性交流接触，潜意识想到性也是正常的，为的是使男女之间达成很多基本的互动。
最重要的可能是接纳、平衡它，以及无论什么情况下，都不要自责。 
只有大大方方接纳，才有可能超越它，以及更进一步解除较低能量中心的阻塞，圣化这股原初的能量。
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年轻人这样很正常
不过把持得住的也不少
因为你现在的主要能量中心是橙红
他们不是了
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18.5 QUESTIONER Thank you. I have a question here from Jim that I will read verbatim:
“Much of the mystic tradition of seeking on Earth holds that belief that the individual self must be erased or obliterated and the material world ignored for an entity to reach ‘nirvana,’ as it’s called, or enlightenment. What is the proper role of the individual self and its worldly activities in aiding an entity to grow more into the Law of One?”
R A I am Ra. The proper role of the entity is, in this density, to experience all things desired, to then analyze, understand, and accept these experiences, distilling from them the love/light within them. Nothing shall be overcome. That which is not needed falls away.
The orientation develops due to analysis of desire. These desires become more and more distorted towards conscious application of love/light as the entity furnishes itself with distilled experience.
We have found it to be inappropriate in the extreme to encourage the overcoming of any desires, except to suggest the imagination rather than the carrying out in the physical plane, as you call it, of those desires not consonant with the Law of One—this preserving the primal distortion of Free Will.
The reason it is unwise to overcome is that overcoming is an unbalanced
action creating difficulties in balancing in the time/space continuum. Overcoming thus creates the further environment for holding onto that which apparently has been overcome.
All things are acceptable in the proper time for each entity, and in experiencing, in understanding, in accepting, in then sharing with other- selves, the appropriate description shall be moving away from distortions of one kind to distortions of another which may be more consonant with the Law of One.
It is, shall we say, a shortcut to simply ignore or overcome any desire. It must instead be understood and accepted. This takes patience and experience which can be analyzed with care, with compassion for self and for other-self.
18.5 发问者: 谢谢你. 我这里有个来自 Jim 的问题, 我把它逐字念出来:“许多地 球上关于寻求的神秘主义传统相信个体自我必须被抹除或消灭, 一个实体必须忽略 物质世界以臻至‘涅槃’(nirvana)或开悟. 个体自我与世俗活动在帮助一个实体更 多地成长进入一的法则(的过程)中的适当角色是什么?”
Ra: 我是 Ra. 一个实体在这个密度的适当角色是去体验所有渴望的事物, 然后分 析、理解, 并接受这些体验, 从中萃取爱/光. 没有什么事物需要被克服, 不被需要 的东西会消失.
分析渴望可以帮助确立一个实体的定向(orientation). 当该实体以提炼后的经验装 备自己, 这些渴望变得越来越倾向有意识地应用爱/光. 我们发现, 鼓励克服任何渴望都是极度不妥当的一件事. 关于那些与一的法则不调和之渴望, 我们建议以想象 取代物理层[如你所称]上的实际行动, 如此可以保存自由意志的原初变貌. 克服并非明智之举的原因乃是由于克服本身是个不平衡的行动, 使得时间/空间连续 体的平衡发生困难. 因此, 克服一个事物, 表面上它已经被克服, 事实上, 进一步 创造出依附该事物的环境.
对于每一个实体, 所有事物在适当时机都是可以接受的, 在体验、理解、接受、与 其他自我分享中, 适当的描述将从一种变貌, 移动到另一个可能与一的法则更调和 的变貌.
容我们说, 单纯地忽略或克服任何欲望是在走捷径. 反而必须让它被理解和接受. 这过程需要耐心与经验, 需要细心地分析, 以及对自我与其他自我的怜悯心.
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46.9 QUESTIONER Certainly.
RA The entity polarizing positively perceives the anger. This entity, if using this catalyst mentally, blesses and loves this anger in itself. It then intensifies this anger consciously in mind alone until the folly of this red- ray energy is perceived, not as folly in itself, but as energy subject to spiritual entropy due to the randomness of energy being used.
Positive orientation then provides the will and faith to continue this mentally intense experience of letting the anger be understood, accepted, and integrated with the mind/body/spirit complex. The other-self which is the object of anger is thus transformed into an object of acceptance, understanding, and accommodation, all being reintegrated using the great energy which anger began.
The negatively oriented mind/body/spirit complex will use this anger in a similarly conscious fashion, refusing to accept the undirected, or random, energy of anger and instead, through will and faith, funneling this energy into a practical means of venting the negative aspect of this emotion so as to obtain control over other-self or otherwise control the situation causing anger.
Control is the key to negatively polarized use of catalyst. Acceptance is the key to positively polarized use of catalyst. Between these polarities lies the potential for this random and undirected energy creating a bodily complex analog of what you call the cancerous growth of tissue.
46.9 发问者: 当然可以.
Ra: 正面极化的实体察觉到愤怒. 这个实体如果在心智上使用该催化剂, 祝福并爱 这个愤怒. 于是它有意识地单独在心智中强化这个愤怒, 直到这股红色光芒能量的 愚蠢不被觉察为愚蠢, 而被觉察为[由于被使用的能量之无秩序状态而]受灵性熵支 配的能量. 于是正面的导向提供意志与信心继续这个心智上强烈的经验, 让愤怒被 理解、接受, 并整合到心/身/灵复合体之中. 作为愤怒对象的其他自我因此被转化 成一个接受、理解、适应的对象, 这一切[使用由愤怒起始的伟大能量]被再度整合. 负面导向的心/身/灵复合体以类似的方式有意识地使用这个愤怒, 拒绝接受愤怒的 这股未被导引或随机的能量, 相反地, 通过意志与信念, 将这股能量导入一种实用 的手段——发泄这股情绪的负面的方面, 以便获得对其他自我的控制, 或控制这个 导致愤怒的情境.
控制是负面极化使用催化剂的关键. 接受是正面极化使用催化剂的关键. 在这两个 极性之间潜藏着一股潜能——使这股未被导引且随机的能量创造出身体复合体的类 比物, 你们称之为组织的癌症肿瘤.
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